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The Tinder Thread

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Harry - LCFC

Harry - LCFC

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Chaps, I'm in a quandary, a two and eight - a mess.

I matched with someone on Tinder just over a month ago, and she's great (for the purposes of not jinxing anything I'm going to call her S22). We've met up a few times and she's fantastic - attractive, funny, engaging. Out of my bracket, really. However, this week I spoke to you-know-who for the first time in ages, the last time we spoke ended pretty acrimoniously but I thought it'd be great to 'catch up' and that. From the sounds of it she's been seeing and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry in Melbourne since we'd stopped speaking and I won't lie, it's ruined me.

This is where my problem lies. Laura has clearly moved on, she's getting what she wants in a manner I didn't actually think was really her - but when we talked she said she still 'loves me' and I have to confess I still feel the same way towards her in many respects, and I have left the 'door open' so to speak because I'm a pussy. But here I am now with S22, a brilliant girl who seems genuinely interested and whom I'm seeing again this weekend, someone who doesn't come with all the baggage that came with Laura when she decided to leave. And yet I'm constantly comparing the two, all this week I've just been looking at photos of me and Laura and obsessing over the thought of her with someone else. Laura always seems to win.

I don't know why I'm posting this or what advice I'm trying to seek out, to be honest. I'm not sure whether or not it's the timing affecting how I think, S22 herself, or the fact that Laura's revelations have only served to make me want her back in my life even more. I've been a state this week.

Strap a pair on, Miquel.

I'd organise a threesome if I were you. Inform both candidates that it's the only way a decision can be arrived at and that their performance will be under intense scrutiny.

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Grewks

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Initial contact went well. Following the trend of this thread, she will be named L20.

 

 

Just decided to go for the basic Hi and went from there, got her facebook etc....in fact even talking as we speak.

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DennisNedry

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Chaps, I'm in a quandary, a two and eight - a mess.

 

I matched with someone on Tinder just over a month ago, and she's great (for the purposes of not jinxing anything I'm going to call her S22). We've met up a few times and she's fantastic - attractive, funny, engaging. Out of my bracket, really. However, this week I spoke to you-know-who for the first time in ages, the last time we spoke ended pretty acrimoniously but I thought it'd be great to 'catch up' and that. From the sounds of it she's been seeing and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry in Melbourne since we'd stopped speaking and I won't lie, it's ruined me.

 

This is where my problem lies. Laura has clearly moved on, she's getting what she wants in a manner I didn't actually think was really her - but when we talked she said she still 'loves me' and I have to confess I still feel the same way towards her in many respects, and I have left the 'door open' so to speak because I'm a pussy. But here I am now with S22, a brilliant girl who seems genuinely interested and whom I'm seeing again this weekend, someone who doesn't come with all the baggage that came with Laura when she decided to leave. And yet I'm constantly comparing the two, all this week I've just been looking at photos of me and Laura and obsessing over the thought of her with someone else. Laura always seems to win.

 

I don't know why I'm posting this or what advice I'm trying to seek out, to be honest. I'm not sure whether or not it's the timing affecting how I think, S22 herself, or the fact that Laura's revelations have only served to make me want her back in my life even more. I've been a state this week.

 

Strap a pair on, Miquel.

 

Just be thankful you have options mate. You may think you're in a difficult position, but I'd trade my life savings to be in it.

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FoxInTheBirstallBox

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Chaps, I'm in a quandary, a two and eight - a mess.

 

I matched with someone on Tinder just over a month ago, and she's great (for the purposes of not jinxing anything I'm going to call her S22). We've met up a few times and she's fantastic - attractive, funny, engaging. Out of my bracket, really. However, this week I spoke to you-know-who for the first time in ages, the last time we spoke ended pretty acrimoniously but I thought it'd be great to 'catch up' and that. From the sounds of it she's been seeing and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry in Melbourne since we'd stopped speaking and I won't lie, it's ruined me.

 

This is where my problem lies. Laura has clearly moved on, she's getting what she wants in a manner I didn't actually think was really her - but when we talked she said she still 'loves me' and I have to confess I still feel the same way towards her in many respects, and I have left the 'door open' so to speak because I'm a pussy. But here I am now with S22, a brilliant girl who seems genuinely interested and whom I'm seeing again this weekend, someone who doesn't come with all the baggage that came with Laura when she decided to leave. And yet I'm constantly comparing the two, all this week I've just been looking at photos of me and Laura and obsessing over the thought of her with someone else. Laura always seems to win.

 

I don't know why I'm posting this or what advice I'm trying to seek out, to be honest. I'm not sure whether or not it's the timing affecting how I think, S22 herself, or the fact that Laura's revelations have only served to make me want her back in my life even more. I've been a state this week.

 

Strap a pair on, Miquel.

You just gunna have to go cold turkey on Laura and go out with S22

I was broke after my ex cheated and deleted on me, and while i got with my current gf i was comparing the two for a couple of months, but eventually it fades away and then you stop checking up on the ex and get ready for the new sex  :cool: 

Might have not been the right thing to get back into a relly so soon after the other but it worked

If all else you could just become abstinent 

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Grewks

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Bloody hell, you animal, you've got her Facebook after initial contact?! Jesus, give me some tips...

 

 

If being sarcastic - Anything more than her facebook after initial contact, and i honestly wouldn't have any interest.

 

 

 

Also, remember this is in person. Not that i consider any type of 'chatting up' to be easy, it is certainly far less risky chatting to someone online for the first time in comparison to meeting them in person.

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Don't know if anybody has been checking out leicesterpool's latest offering in the Sunderland ticket thread but it's a must use opening line for the tinder Romeos out there.

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She's saying that shit to keep you on the end of her finger ready as back up in case her travels don't work out and she doesn't find someone better

Been on the end of those lines from someone who broke up with me years ago - in my experience bin her it means **** all

She's extending her travels to around this time next year now, man - she left in January. 90% of the time we spoke recently (a few days up until Sunday night) she said she didn't want anything when she came back, then she kept coming out with lines like 'we're perfect together and you're perfect for me / I always compare you to other guys I see / I love you / I miss you'

Can't get my head around it.

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In addition to my own story above....i've been doing a little digging for a pal of mine, very shy lad, no idea why he's reasonably good looking and is fairly normal.

 

 

 

He's after this girl he works with, but he doesn't really know her, whereas i have known her since school. He asked me to get to know her a bit for him, see what she's like etc..

 

So i started chatting to her the other day on the old facebook, using the old 'I'm looking for advice on how to approach an attractive young woman' etc....It is all going rather well, until she says 'i am seeing someone btw'. Now normally this would be where i go back to my buddy and say, 'sorry pal, she's seeing someone', but something didn't seem right.

 

 

Of course many women use this line if they are indeed seeing someone....or if they're just not interested in the person they are talking to.....But what about lieing just to see how you react, to see if you are indeed hitting on them? As soon as i responded with 'That's ok, didn't realise you thought i was hitting on you', she just said 'ah right yeah' and just cleared off after a couple of hours engaging me in conversation.

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Strokes

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Giving up on trying to decipher what a woman wants or thinks and just doing what you feel is the right thing is probably the best decision a man can make.

Most women just want a good seeing too, you just need to give them the illusion that you are the man for the job.
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Just be thankful you have options mate. You may think you're in a difficult position, but I'd trade my life savings to be in it.

You must be very lonely to envy someone in Lovedays position. That is not a scenario anyone wants, we've all been there to some extent and it isnt pleasant.

As an aside its been a year next week since me and my lovely tinder lady started courting.

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Chaps, I'm in a quandary, a two and eight - a mess.

 

I matched with someone on Tinder just over a month ago, and she's great (for the purposes of not jinxing anything I'm going to call her S22). We've met up a few times and she's fantastic - attractive, funny, engaging. Out of my bracket, really. However, this week I spoke to you-know-who for the first time in ages, the last time we spoke ended pretty acrimoniously but I thought it'd be great to 'catch up' and that. From the sounds of it she's been seeing and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry in Melbourne since we'd stopped speaking and I won't lie, it's ruined me.

 

This is where my problem lies. Laura has clearly moved on, she's getting what she wants in a manner I didn't actually think was really her - but when we talked she said she still 'loves me' and I have to confess I still feel the same way towards her in many respects, and I have left the 'door open' so to speak because I'm a pussy. But here I am now with S22, a brilliant girl who seems genuinely interested and whom I'm seeing again this weekend, someone who doesn't come with all the baggage that came with Laura when she decided to leave. And yet I'm constantly comparing the two, all this week I've just been looking at photos of me and Laura and obsessing over the thought of her with someone else. Laura always seems to win.

 

I don't know why I'm posting this or what advice I'm trying to seek out, to be honest. I'm not sure whether or not it's the timing affecting how I think, S22 herself, or the fact that Laura's revelations have only served to make me want her back in my life even more. I've been a state this week.

 

Strap a pair on, Miquel.

 

Send her a picture of the other girl with a mouthful of your nutsack.  She'll either get the message and leave you alone or realise what she is missing and come running back. 

 

Of course there is a chance she may see it as a challenge and post pics back to you of her conquests which could be a little awkward but then there are lots n here that would appreciate the pictures anyway.  Win win situation. 

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Merging Cultures

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In addition to my own story above....i've been doing a little digging for a pal of mine, very shy lad, no idea why he's reasonably good looking and is fairly normal.

He's after this girl he works with, but he doesn't really know her, whereas i have known her since school. He asked me to get to know her a bit for him, see what she's like etc..

So i started chatting to her the other day on the old facebook, using the old 'I'm looking for advice on how to approach an attractive young woman' etc....It is all going rather well, until she says 'i am seeing someone btw'. Now normally this would be where i go back to my buddy and say, 'sorry pal, she's seeing someone', but something didn't seem right.

Of course many women use this line if they are indeed seeing someone....or if they're just not interested in the person they are talking to.....But what about lieing just to see how you react, to see if you are indeed hitting on them? As soon as i responded with 'That's ok, didn't realise you thought i was hitting on you', she just said 'ah right yeah' and just cleared off after a couple of hours engaging me in conversation.

You need to forget the bins for this one. You have her email? Try hacking her FB. Her password is probably easy. Try 'password' or '123456789'. If that fails, ask her the name of her first pet.

You'll get there. She clearly wants you. Remember no sometimes means yes.

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You need to forget the bins for this one. You have her email? Try hacking her FB. Her password is probably easy. Try 'password' or '123456789'. If that fails, ask her the name of her first pet.

You'll get there. She clearly wants you. Remember no sometimes means yes.

 

Clearly you used up all your humor on your last post, good try.

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